tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315412643783153950.post5624119158691105740..comments2023-03-25T06:11:14.112-05:00Comments on Grether =: The World Outside Linda Street.HLKhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01027788644184061661noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315412643783153950.post-1469879871895902922010-04-30T20:01:29.571-05:002010-04-30T20:01:29.571-05:00I was both happy and surprised to see you at churc...I was both happy and surprised to see you at church. I know that must have been so hard. However, it is a testament to your faith. I kept a respectful distance - not to be rude by any means but I knew others were reaching out to you and I thought you may not have enough to greet all of us. I wanted to hug you and cry with you but did not think that was what you needed. Please know that all of us love you and you are covered in prayer. Tricia WolfeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315412643783153950.post-47698980274130087202010-04-27T10:03:50.340-05:002010-04-27T10:03:50.340-05:00Precious Heather and Greg,
I, too, think you are ...Precious Heather and Greg,<br /><br />I, too, think you are both doing so well considering the loss you have endured. Heather, no apologies needed for us, but I think it's good that you have stated your position so clearly for us to understand a bit of how you are dealing with "the world."<br /><br />We love you and wish, along with everyone here, we could ease your pain, lighten this cloud. But we also do trust that there will be mercy for you even underneath it for as long as it lasts (which, we agree, won't be forever.... and when the darkest of the cloud is lifted, Maelee will still be loved, still be remembered.) <br /><br />We love you terribly much and we are praying with a desperate, solid confidence in His grace for you-<br /><br />jillJill Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14113705015035015248noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315412643783153950.post-34261557239836966532010-04-27T07:02:23.786-05:002010-04-27T07:02:23.786-05:00Love you Heather! Just thinking about and praying...Love you Heather! Just thinking about and praying for you this morning on my way to work. Thank you for being so real. BeckyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315412643783153950.post-21712186885820699822010-04-26T18:31:46.647-05:002010-04-26T18:31:46.647-05:00Hey Heather and Greg-
I read your blog everyday an...Hey Heather and Greg-<br />I read your blog everyday and am so thankful you are both willing to share this with those of us too far away to be there to help in some way. I appreciate reading this and knowing how we can best lift you up in prayer-- please know we continue to pray for you daily and you - all 3 of you are in our thoughts so very often. I wish I could do something more- I wish I could just take a little bit of your pain away- to fix it to make it better- but like you both have said none of us except God will be able to heal that hurt- and Im sorry I can't do more.<br />Im sorry I haven't commented more- I simply don't know what to say. But we are reading your thoughts daily wishing we could do more!<br />Love you all!<br />the SimonsErin Simonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315412643783153950.post-36008333146358274762010-04-26T17:20:25.550-05:002010-04-26T17:20:25.550-05:00Heather,
It's perfectly understandable for you...Heather,<br />It's perfectly understandable for you have that black cloud. You lost your child. It's impressive that you find a way to crawl out of bed every day. What you guys have gone through is one of the worst things a person could go through. You are not a jerk. You are making it through the day the best way you know how. Do not apologize. You are doing an amazing job. I know you know this, but Maelee will not be forgotten. One day, when you find a real reason to smile and be happy, it won't mean Maelee isn't on your mind. When you are able to leave the house and not be sad, it doesn't mean anyone will think Maelee isn't being remembered. That little girl has made such a huge impact on so many people. She has fantastic parents and there is NO WAY she will ever be forgotten. Don't stress about how you may seem to other people. You need to grieve and feel true emotion. Your friends and family understand that and we wouldn't expect any less. We love all three of you.TheSpeightshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15438529231955589329noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315412643783153950.post-53453148697596952642010-04-26T17:13:37.174-05:002010-04-26T17:13:37.174-05:00Heather and Greg,
You don't know me, but my hu...Heather and Greg,<br />You don't know me, but my husband Eric and I are fellow CIU alums. I am so, so, sorry to hear about your precious Maelee. Peggy Manoogian in the alumni office gave me your blog address just today. She shared your story with me because just over a year ago, we lost our little girl, Naomi, in my 19th week of pregnancy. Although I don't know the pain of losing a child so close to delivery, we too have walked this road of grief, and I wanted to offer you another hand in this terrible journey. I wanted to tell you, too, about a couple of resources that may be helpful. One is a website, www.hannahsprayer.org, which is an online support group for Christians dealing with both infertility and pregnacy and infant loss (only for women - I'm sorry. But my husband and I will be starting one soon for both men and women.) Also, there are two real-life support groups here in Columbia. One meets tomorrow night at Palmetto Baptist Hospital, and the other meets Thursday May 13 at Lexington Medical Center at 7:00. I still attend that one, over a year after our loss. I'll be there on the 13th. <br /><br />In no way do I want to intrude on a very personal and private time of grieving. But please feel to contact me if you want information about any of this, or if you just want to connect with another member of this "club" that none of us would have chosen to join. My e-mail address is kbothur@att.net. If you e-mail me, I'll give you my phone number, too.<br /><br />Again, I'm so terribly sad for you. I am praying for you as you navigate these uncharted waters.<br /><br />Kristi BothurKristi B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/08704842232565515907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315412643783153950.post-27777792300918405212010-04-26T17:12:43.301-05:002010-04-26T17:12:43.301-05:00Hi Heather and Greg. I continue to think about you...Hi Heather and Greg. I continue to think about your family. Heather, I keep picturing you as a little girl--I suppose that is silly, but that is how and when I knew you the most. I guess, when I picture your little Maelee, I picture a version of you Heather. I have not forgotten about your loss. I will never forget Maelee, a part of me feels that I know Maelee. Thank you for sharing. Love, Sarah Geltel OpsalAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315412643783153950.post-40932904290627563802010-04-26T16:42:12.876-05:002010-04-26T16:42:12.876-05:00Heather ~ I would love to contribute to Maelee'...Heather ~ I would love to contribute to Maelee's name gallery. Would you like us to email you our picture and if so, will you please send me your email address? Mine is katier7@cox.net<br /><br />Our sweet Reese went to be with Jesus when she was two days old Aug. 13th. I'm so sorry your precious baby girl is not here with you.<br /><br />May GOD love on you and shield you and your husband as only He can. He truly does redeem. KatieKatiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13225522064810068822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315412643783153950.post-34778899998127275542010-04-26T14:21:00.085-05:002010-04-26T14:21:00.085-05:00Heather, every time I start to write something, so...Heather, every time I start to write something, something profound or comforting, I erase it, back up and try again. Words just don't seem to come, though I want them to so badly. I guess I want to say, It is okay, don't worry about what anyone else is thinking or not thinking. This really isn't about them. Mourning takes a long long time. So cry when you need to, even when it feels awkward. I woke up and prayed for you again last night. I love you both, no...I love you three. maxineAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315412643783153950.post-17889378068610433412010-04-26T13:02:05.419-05:002010-04-26T13:02:05.419-05:00Oh Heather, I love that you said you can't be ...Oh Heather, I love that you said you can't be nicey-nice when you just don't have it in you. You just are who you are - with no pretenses, and this is one of my favorite things about you. You're so real, and no one expects fake happiness from you. My heart aches for you and so I pray for you and Greg all the time. <br />ErinErinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18145068462808713007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315412643783153950.post-79710476792744063962010-04-26T11:09:04.545-05:002010-04-26T11:09:04.545-05:00It was great seeing you both at church yesterday. ...It was great seeing you both at church yesterday. Please know however long it takes for a "new normal" we are here for you and continuously praying. I am trying to find a creative way to add to Maelee's name book and creativity is not my thing, but it will come eventually. Love and miss you guys!!<br />AutumnAutumnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04183329388323354526noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315412643783153950.post-235313368912208972010-04-26T07:56:53.478-05:002010-04-26T07:56:53.478-05:00Heather, my heart breaks to hear your pain. You c...Heather, my heart breaks to hear your pain. You continue to be in our prayers. Thank you for being authentic and sharing with us how your heart aches at the "world" and how something so small like little feet tear you to pieces. We are excited to be part of Maelee's name book and have a few ideas we are going to try. Here is my prayer for you, "To bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair..." Isaiah 61:3<br />You and Greg were a big impact on our lives in GF and continues to be as you share with us your life.<br />We love you and Maelee! Maria OlsonMariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02889732661569323690noreply@blogger.com