I'll probably think of Maelee every day of my life. Having days (like her birthday) are especially nice. Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Day are good for that collaborative community "hey this happens and we need to remember." Grieve loud folks, it's good for you.
I was in Fargo for two days and hurried back because I missed my living kiddos and wanted to light a candle with them and tuck them in tonight.