Monday, April 12, 2010

Perfect Name.

Many of you know that we were very indecisive about naming our baby. We had a lot of criteria to meet. We wanted it to be perfect.

I sort of scoffed at those that said “as soon as I saw my baby, I knew this was his/her name.” I thought there was no way that was possible. It is.

We had already pretty much decided on Maelee before we saw her sweet face. And as soon as I saw her, I knew. She was completely and perfectly Maelee Linn.

And her name ended up meeting most all of our criteria… it’s pronounced like “Bailey” with an M and it’s not easy to spell necessarily but it honors family and sounds great with Kasowski. And I’m ever so grateful that her name is unique enough that I won’t hear someone calling for their child one aisle over while I’m shopping at Publix.

I’m glad to honor Doris Mae, my grandma with Alzheimer’s. I’m glad Maelee will forever be a Kasowski. And I’m glad for our middle name.

Sherry Linn, my mom
Amber Linn, my sister
Alison Linn, my niece
Heather Linn, me
Maelee Linn, my daughter

I love to say her name, to hear Greg say her name, to type her name.

I just wish I didn’t have to see her perfect name on a gravestone.

13 comments:

Rachel said...

I think it's absolutely perfect too. I know I made a big deal about you naming her, so I wanted you to know, there could be nothing more beautiful for her than Maelee Linn.

SarahJ said...

I love the name you picked for your daughter. Maelee Linn is one of the most beautiful names I have ever heard. I like the way Linn is spelled. Heather, I have been thinking about you everyday.

Sincerely, Sarah Geltel Opsal

TheSpeights said...

I absolutely adore the name Maelee Linn. I got chills to see you type "my daughter." We think about you guys every second of the day and keep you guys in our prayers. You two are truly amazing and your faith is an inspiration. Maelee would have been lucky to have you guys.

Diane Kemp said...

I love the name. I am so glad to see you (Heather typing). I am so glad that you made her a part of the family with her name. I think that is so special! I just wish that you didn't have to see her perfect name on her gravestone too! We have all been thinking about you guys and of course praying for you too! I have heard so many speak of what an impact your testimony and how you are dealing with this has impacted them.
Diane Kemp
Diane Kemp

Anonymous said...

My dearest Heather! Your sweet Grandma Doris would be honored greatly that Maelee was, in part named for her:) I wish she understood, but I know in her heart she loves you and precious Maelee Linn Kasowski! Much love and prayers...Aunt Ruth

Linnea said...

Her name is perfect. I absolutely have to stop reading your updates at work though. I've been crying all day! I even cried during our staff meeting. (Please laugh at me for how funny it is to start crying when talking about the most boring mundane work stuff on the planet.)

I know she was perfect too. I think about you three everyday.

Anonymous said...

Heather, we pray for you three all day long. I wish I had the most perfect words to send, the biggest hug I could give, but instead I'm sending the biggest computer hug :) and prayers you can imagine. All I keep hearing in my prayers for you is 'through'. The Lord promises you will get through this. My pray is that you cling to this promise. Maelee Linn is the most beautiful name I have ever heard. She will be cherished and remembered forever.

Thank you for sharing with us. We so appreciate you updates.
with lots of love and prayers,
Ireland's

Dori said...

Heather and Greg,

Still praying for you. I love her name, you two did well in choosing her name. Thank you for allowing us to grieve with you.

Love,
Dori

The Weisbecks said...

Dearest Greg and Heather,
Your mom and dad e-mailed this link and it has been such a blessing... I know it sounds weird but by sharing your thoughts, it gives us an opportunity to pray you through your pain. Please know that the Weisbeck gang has you close to their hearts and prayers. We love you so much!
Al, Nancy, Mike, Adam and Ben

Anonymous said...

Greg and Heather -
I have never heard a more beautiful name, it is absolutely perfect. I am so sorry about your loss, words can't express. Praying for a peace that surpasses all understanding and the strength of the Lord to help you by each moment. I love all three of you.

Chelsea

Jill K said...

Precious Heather,
In all the world there could not be a sweeter, lovelier name. We love it and we love her and we love you SO much. We were away from internet for 2 days and ached al the more to hear from you. Praying continually for you-
Much Love,
Jill

Tarim Legatus said...

Heather,

I love the name too, and we're honored that she will always be a Kasowski. Thanks for posting, we are praying that He would continue to comfort you and be glorified in your sorrow. I already find myself longing more for the day when He will return and wipe away all this pain and corruption.

Let Love Grow said...

I love her name; Maelee Linn is a BEAUTIFUL name!