Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Status update

Heather is resting soundly right now. They gave her an epidural around noon. She is over halfway to delivery. (5 cm dilated at 2 p.m.) She is full of drugs right now -- epidural, magnesium sulfate (as safety for the preenclampsia), something I can't pronounce for her headache, and a tranquilizer to keep her calm. We are hoping she will deliver before the day ends. I will try to keep you posted.
-Greg

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

every moment we are calling out for God's help for you precious brother and sister. thank you Greg for the updates.
Matt and Jill

angela said...

This was passed on by a friend who has been where you both are. I hope you find peace.

Here's an excerpt from Thomas Lynch's "The Undertaking" that resonated with me: When we bury the old, we bury the known past, the past we imagine sometimes better than it was, but the past all the same, a portion of which we inhabited. Memory is the overwhelming theme, the eventual comfort.

But burying infants, we bury the future, unwieldy and unknown, full of promise and possibilities, outcomes punctuated by our rosy hopes. The grief has no borders, no limits, no known ends, and the little infant graves that edge the corners and fencerows of every cemetery are never quite big enough to contain that grief. Some sadnesses are permanent. Dead babies do not give us memories. They give us dreams.

karleebeth said...

Thinking of and praying for you and your family. Toni(Jeff's Lippert's cousin)

Anonymous said...

My heart is breaking for you. You are all in our prayers...Alex has been praying nonstop. May you feel the arms of the Father, as He knows your pain. Thank you Greg for the updates for family that is way too far away. Aunt Ruth

Nikole said...

Thank you so much for the updates Greg. We are still praying and grieving with you. I constantly have you and Heather on my heart.